General

To me, it isn't real until you meet somone (and even then there is no guarantee.) I have had people who I was very friendly with (not romantic) just disappear after chatting with them every night for months. Many people are not honest. Even basic things like age, gender, martial status, etc.

eh I kind of agree with her, just enjoy the fetish alone, even if you meet up with them they can still trick you and not be who you thought they were, and yes it does happen with couples that arent into any fetishes but i think its more likely to happen when youre looking for a partner on a specifically sex/fetish orientated site, chances are theyre only going to be looking for one thing
plus the majority of feeders on here are cowards with skinny wives/gfs at home